"When someone breaks up with you, you need to accept that it's not because there is something wrong with you, but that you're just not what they want at this stage of life. Seen this way, no danger is done and you can move on and find a better fit."
"Dating is about looking at someone and seeing something you like about them, then going out and getting to know them. This process used to take weeks, months or even years, but today it may take only one or two nights. It's far better to wait and take things one step at a time."
Signs that you're clinging
- you struggle not to call or email him and keep checking your messages.
- you constantly talk about him.
- you keep wondering what he's doing and who he's with.
- you find yourself doing drive-bys of his home or work.
- you find yourself running into him at his favourite bar.
- you cry frequently, or feel consumed by anger or lethargy.
- you drink, eat, sleep, take drugs or spend too much - signs you're struggling to forget him instead of forging past him.
p/s: I'm still improving...
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